Stop bugging me with the question , what can I do . What can i do What can i do , of course i must study . I must admit I have been slacking for the past term , and thus my results have deproved ? But that is not the only reason. There are some reasons like what care have you show me , when my results have deproved what have you done ? Scold me chide me . This have hurt my morale and thus caused me not to be able to study properly. When I was young , you both will always scold me when i do badly , i resisted and resisted until there came the day where i could not take it. Stupid Dumb vulgarities came spewing out like hot water , burning me emotionally with it . Like today , I was wanting to complete my notes and do some revision on to kill a mockingbird until this came up . And of course , I thank you all for all the wonderful things you did for me. Please I exaggerated a little . And please chill.
Ok this is an example of a stress out child having low msg. What do you think about him? I think he should reflect on himself and perhaps find fault and solve it. Exaggerated a little , i think it is making a mountain out of a molehill. At least he said his parents did a good job evident from the second last line.
I'm feeling that his parents shouldn't give him so much stress. The child is at fault as well.
ReplyDeleteThe child should have worked hard instead of slacking. It is the child's responsibility to study hard and do well in the future. If the child has tried his best, there is no point scolding or chiding him. Instead, they should encourage and motivate him to do better in the next test or examination.
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Yeah i feel the parents is at fault as they are giving him to much stress but the parents do not realise it themselves. The child of course should not slack but maybe it is because of the scolding that he wants to "rebel". Lol just a thought. Nothing personal though.
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At first after reading, you feel pity for the child mentioned but in close inspection, you see two sides of the coin.
ReplyDeleteFor one, it takes two hands to clap so the parents have a part to play in scolding the child too much. This creates psychological problems. Next, the child has been lazy so this is his just deserts.
I feel that this is a common scene in Singapore as competition in marks/academics lead to such anger and unhappiness. Study is for knowledge not for winning others.
That I guess is the moral of the story.